I was born here so I've always had the opportunities that some people don’t have. My parents were able to become citizens in the 80s right before immigration laws got difficult. Growing up I never thought much of it until I got my first job at restaurant when I was 16. I became very good friends with a lot of people who worked in the kitchen. And one of them would later become my boyfriend. Later on in the relationship, he told me about how he grew up in El Salvador, being a cop, getting paid $5.00 a day, and so on. He and his sister's chances of coming to the US had to be illegally. So on their way here they both were arrested, but later released. He had a court date, and never showed up. Later that decision determined his future here.
I came to love a really good person, but everyone felt that I could do better because I had more of privileged life and he was only an illegal immigrant. It was hard and still is trying to have a relationship when everyone is against us. But things got worst when he got deported to El Salvador six months ago.
His family and I keep in touch, and I spend time with them as much as I can. I understand not all Americans agree with illegal immigration, but all they really do is make an honest living. Living in the shadows is sad. The majority of his family here is illegal, but when I see them I just think of them as my family. Illegal or not I still love them, because I've learned so much from them and they have made me a better person.
Vanessa
Annandale,VA
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My family came to this country as legal immigrants, in search of safety, education, and most of all, a better life. I come from Somalia where a Civil War broke out in 1991 due to corruption of the government. When I came to America I was 12 years old and I had never attended school before going to the Newcomer Center at John Adams Middle School in Rochester in 2004. Unfortunately, when I transferred to Kellogg, my classmates were not very friendly towards me. I knew that people were talking about me and I would have stood up for myself, but at the time I couldn’t express what I wanted to say in English. However, these words were so hurtful that I thought of killing myself.
One night, my grandmother asked me how school was going for me. I told her that I never wanted to go back. My grandmother was shocked and speechless. Then, she told me that these are just some of the challenges that everyone has to face in life. She told me to be strong and just live through it. It is not the end of the world. She also encouraged me to keep working hard in school and to ignore what people were saying. Then I said, I will kill myself if you make me go back to that school. She slapped me across the face and said, You will what? If you kill yourself, then who is going to look after your little siblings? Do you think that killing yourself will solve all the problems that you have? She also said that if you give up now; then all the sacrifices we have made coming to this country were for nothing. That is the night I realized that if I kill myself, I would be giving up the fight.
To close, I would like to leave you with this thought: Since this country is made up of immigrants, and you or your ancestors were immigrants, why should you treat other immigrants any differently?
Awale Osman
Rochester, MN
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I'm a 25 year old woman and happily married to my husband. He is 26 years old. I'm 4 months pregnant and my husband is in Mexico waiting for his papers. He's got 7-9 more months to be there. I haven't seen him for 2 and a half months. We didn't plan for me to get pregnant right now that I'm fixing his papers. We wanted him to be here in the United States legally, so that we can start having a family of our own. I'm tired of feeling lonely and depressed. I need to be happy for my baby. I want our baby to be healthy, but how can I do that without my husband here?
Debra
Corcoran, CA
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My parents in search for the better life brought me here in the US from Mexico when I was about 2 along with my older sister who was about 6 and now I am 14 years old. I have come to love this country so much over the years. It was easy for me to learn English at a very early age .Both my mom and dad older sister and I are illegal. My mom and dad are very good hardworking people who just want the best for their kids. My dad always having to work overtime just to put at least some eggs or bread on the table, the clothes on our backs and the roof over our heads worked and worked and didnt stop. My mom also worked so hard that she would ache of the pain from the machinery. They knew if they stopped we would go hungry. They have been my motivation for doing the bestI could in school. I may not be the smartest but I try my best and in the future I plan to go to college to be an Architect, and get married and never have my parents work ever again but being illegal blocks my dreams and all that I am capable of pursueing. In the present day My dad is no longer with us and I have 3 US siblings and a 1yr 7 month baby boy nephew my brother who is 8 and sister who is 9 and my other sister who is 10 that makes 6 mouths to feed. My mom worked in a chicken factory doing all she can as a single mother. She gave me everything I ever wanted even with the extra hard earned money she had I never thought of owning a Playstation3 and a Brand new Computer. I finished my 8th grade school year in May 30th and going on to 9th. Everything was going along great until the morning of July 23,2008 when my mother had gone with my mothers friends son to pick up his car for getting a ticket. She had no idea what was coming to her but she felt something bad in the distance. She was nervous when the police asked her for her licence that was expired and had no insurance for the car. A single 3 words changed my life forever when my oldest sister had told me "She's in Jail." Of the 15 years that my mother has been in the US she has never commited a crime. Shes a great law abiding citizen, but when you look it in the eyes of the police shes a criminal who broke every law. And anyway you look at it Shes innocent. Now that I heard she will be taken to the bigger city Minneapolis and later being sent back to Mexico my heart aches when seeing her pictures of all those memories I have spent with her. She was in the wrong place at the wrong time. I dont know if I will see her again in awhile but I wont give up faith for the chance to hug her so tight and say "MOM I LOVE YOU SO MUCH".I dont know why this country is like this today everyone is of Immigrant decent but why does the differnce of being born someplace else make the differnce. We are all human trying to survive in the land of which God granted us with. I am 14 yrs old taking on a role of a grown man, but I have faith that every immigrant families out there will have there recombensa in life. I pray to God that the new president in the upcoming elections will change our stories."You never know what you have until its gone" God Bless Every Immigrant Out There.
Ave Rubio
Rockville, MN
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I am married to an immigrant who was recently deported to Brazil. I am now left as a single mother of our daughter who is 14 months old and no way to care for her. I am lost and confused. I am an American and I just wish that other Americans would give our husbands a chance. They are not here to hurt this country, only to help it. But in the process of deportation America is hurting its own people.
Kelly
Deerfield Beach, FL
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My husband petitioned me in 2006 and I got my interview in Ciudad Juarez Nov, 06 2007. I got a year "punishment" due to the fact that I went to the USA illegally as a minor. I qualified for a waiver/pardon but on the day of the interview the officer said I needed some more forms which my husband submitted to an address in Texas in timely manner. It has been 8 months and whenever we call INS they say that my case is being reviewed by Homeland Security and that if we do not hear any news back from then by December 1st, 2008 then we can call for further information on what to do. I am very afraid that my case will be denied all together and I will not be my reunited with my husband and family. I have been in the USA since I was twelve years old and I'm almost thirty. My life has been drastically changed and I really do not know how to deal with my loneliness and frustration. All I want is to go back to my husband and to my home.
Reyna
Wilmington, California
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I have 3 kids by a Mexican that has no papers. He was deported. Now what am I supposed to do? Go on welfare because the President wants to deport all Mexicans?
Deanna Burns-Silva
Ludington, Michigan
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I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have lived together since three weeks after we got together. I am an American citizen who was born in this country. He was born and raised in Mexico and came to America when he was 17. He has been here for over 2 years now. We love each other very much and we want to get married. I have been reading all of the laws and stories about immigration on the internet and I don't know what to do. It looks like it is going to be very hard to get him any kind of papers to be here legally. I just want to be able to marry him, have his children, and spend the rest of my life with him. I don't understand why it has to be so hard.
Cherie
Moreno Valley, CA
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I'm here almost 4 years. I'm from Bosnia and my husband is American. We got married in Bosnia and I received paperwork for 2 weeks and visa all together one month. Since 2005 I live here in Seattle, Washington with my husband and my 3 year old son. I never had any problems about paperwork or anything. I'm permanent resident. I didn't take a USA passport yet because I'm very good with who I am. So sorry to hear the stories and problems some you have had and cannot bring someone who you love but you need to be working with the law if you are interested in bringing that person to the USA. I'm at college right now and my life here is much of what I always wanted it to be. You can be with that someone who you love only if you do the right things how I told you to do. God bless America.
KG
Seatlle, WA
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My life changed on May 14th, 2008 when officials came to my house and took my parents away. I was in church at that time so I thank God immigration wasn't able to take me into custody. Now I am fighting the custody of both my brothers that are minors. I am from Guatemala and I came to the U.S. when I was only two years old. I am nineteen now and I know nothing of my country. They want to take me and my mother by the end of this month. I feel like I belong here and I know I DO. God bless every immigrant that has come to the U.S. for a better future for themselves and their families. The U.S. is in God's hands...
Jennifer Montenegro
Grandview, WA
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I applied for my husband's visa and was denied. I never received a letter from the US Consulate stating why my husband's application was denied. I want to sue the US Consulate office for not properly finishing the paperwork so that I could file an appeal. I also want to sue the US Consulate office for child support since I will not be able to raise my children on my own. God bless all immigrants!
Lesley
Apache Junction, Arizona
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My daughter married a man from Mexico whom she loves very much and they have a 4 year old son and a 2 year old daughter. I love my son in law. He was paying taxes and doing everything legal and he was deported. It has broken our hearts and the children are so confused they don't know what to do. We have a family here with 3 Americans and they want their Mexican father back home. It has led my daughter almost to financial ruin because they took him. But they don't offer any help to pay her bills.
CB
Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
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I came here fourteen years ago on a visitor visa. My dad was a US citizen and filed for me. That was in 1996. We have different last names because my dad and mom were not married. The country which I came from does not put a father's name who is not present on the birth certificate. We filed all the paper work. I got my work permit and that was the easy part. The interview for adjustment of status was different. The officer ask a few questions and marked my passport i485 pending. He said that I will hear from immigration. Fast forward to 2004. I receive a letter stating that they need additional documents. I send every document requested. All they have to do is ask for a DNA test. That will solve everything. I am tired of waiting and need to get on with my life.
Ron
NY
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I am a woman from Morocco. I met an American man and we got married. My husband brought me to USA by k1 visa and after I showed the marriage contract to the consulate in Morocco they gave me the visa. In 30/08/2005 I came to USA and we applied for a green card. I waited for 2 years just to have the interview on 08/01/2008. But during the interview the person who interviewed us told me that I broke the law because I had married in my country and I entered to USA by K1 visa. I told her that I did not know, the lawyer did all the things for us. Me and my husband have no idea about the immigration papers. At the end of the interview she told me that she will give me her decision after 2 weeks but I have not heard from her. I do not know what will happen.
Nawara
St. Louis, MO
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My husband and I met in 1999. It was love at first sight. We dated for two years then got married in 2002. Our life together has been a fairy tale since the day we met. We went to so many lawyers that took our money and nothing was done. My husband is from Guatemala. I'm a US citizen. We have filed for so many petitions. He finally was issued a social security number and worked for many years paying taxes to uncle sam. In 2007 we had an interview with immigration. We have been doing everything by the law and on 10-2007 my husband got deported. Now our life has been a nightmare. I've been in the hospital 4 times for a heart attack and 2 TIA strokes. I've had an heart condition for some time but my husband's absence in my life has made me more ill. I'm on so many meds I don't think I'll be around to tell my husband in person I love you. I do call him twice a week and we write to each other. Immigration laws will be the cause of my death. I don't want to die but I miss him so much. My life has no meaning. I still work. I'm a nurse. Hoping for new laws so we can be together. I do have a good lawyer but having a hard time with my health. My only means to continue going is prayers to God and hope. My husband always took care of me. My heart is like a broken leaking faucet. Always crying, can't sleep, can't eat. I was 125 pounds, now I'm 100 pounds. When I talk to my husband I don't tell him I'm ill cause I don't want to worry him. My absence in his life is hateful enough. He always called me pulgita cause I'm small.
Pulgita
Philadelphia
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We are pregnant with our first baby and we just buy our first house and immigration deport my husband to Haiti, after he has been in the USA for 9 years. They just find out he is illegal. I want to kill myself and that American baby inside of me because I can never make it without him. I hope when you read my history you will see that the USA yesterday is not the same today. In a country of 50 states with a lot of empty land, deportation should never exist because all the immigrant people are looking for is freedom! Clinton was the president and he helped the immigrants, but this president ignores us.
Mamie
Boca, Fl
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I am married to a man from Mexico. In March we were told that he cannot re-apply for 10 yrs. We are devastated. I wish all the people that are so critical about doing things the right way had their hearts ripped out like we have. I believe people should be able to live anywhere they want to. We tried to do things the correct way and it didn't work. However, the government was happy to take our money and have us travel for an interview just to tell us sorry, you cannot enter for 10 yrs. Sad story.
Karol
Puyallup, WA
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I have been in the U.S for over 20 years, I came to this country legally. All those years I went to school here, my mother raised me to believe you can be anything you want as long as you set your mind to it. I am not sure if I feel that is true, I went to SFSU and graduated with double major: BA; Radio and Television, and La Raza Studies. Every year, I had to come to the financial aid office, begging, crying explaining my financial situation, my mother had passed away from cancer. I was 17 years old. Every semester, I had to bring my U.S passport because according to her I was not a U.S. Citizen. My financial award was always put on hold because they thought I was just permanent resident. As always, my citizenship was devalued. Sometimes, I felt they did this on purpose, they did it because they wanted me to give up my education. Anyhow, I struggled, dealt with it and survived.
Sugey
San Francisco, CA
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My husband is a legal immigrant here from Mexico. The illegals crimes and attitudes make it hard on legal Hispanic immigrants to get unprejudicial treatment! I have been around the Hispanic comm. here in northeast Ohio since the early 1990's. Yo entiendo mucho espanol! The things I have seen and heard from illegals over the years would horrify any citizen of any sovereign country! I know from experience that there is so much reverse racism, a "US owes me attitude" and blatant disrespect of US laws, and dissing of Americans (mostly women and young girls), and serious facts are suppressed concerning Americans safety and health being at risk when millions of people from 3rd world countries sneak into this country illegally. Look at the news in Mexico, they don’t want illegals from south of their border sneaking into Mexico!
I am a healthcare worker, a medical professional, and I find it very disconcerting that you dont hear much on the health risks posed to Americans by illegals! Did you know that many illegal aliens harbor fatal diseases that American medicine fought and vanquished long ago, such as drug-resistant tuberculosis, malaria, leprosy, plague, polio, dengue, and Chagas disease, to name a few. HIV-AIDS is also more prevalent in third world countries, and other STD's. Not to mention the lack of proper hygeine/sanitation when they cram several families or 20-30 ppl in a single family residence! No matter how you want to spin it, there are many discrepancies between cultures of ppl from third world countries and Americans. I see and hear everyday, things that I wish I didnt know. Like how they change names to avoid bills, use document fraud/forgery as needed, ID theft, SS# fraud/forgery, obtaining goods and services by fraudulent means ETC.. ETC.. Americans are prosecuted for these crimes, some of which are felonies! There are more and more ppl like myself, learning the actions of illegals, things hidden and minimized by illegals and their supporters, things they dont want us to know. I report the stuff I know, as it affects me, my kids, and my legal immigrant husband who also gets angry when he sees the facts twisted like in many articles/posts on this site.
Calling an illegal alien an undocumented worker is like calling a houserobber an uninvited guest, or like calling a drug dealer an unlicensed pharmacist! Poverty is no excuse to break the law! Americans are prosecuted for fraud/forgery etc.. so should the illegals be held accountable for the crimes they commit! Why dont you help them organize protests and change in their home country? The Mexican gov't has pushed it's ppl and problems on the US to fix for too long! Mexico is one of the richest countries in the world, as far as resources go, but has a corrupt gov't that suppresses the freedom and prosperity of it's own ppl, then push them off on the US to get the billions of US $ that are sent back to the home country by illegals here in the US! The only Americans wanting illegals here are the businesses and wealthy that use them and prosper from them, the rest of america that lives among them, doesn't like neighborhoods turned into overcrowded/unsanitary barrios, if we did we'd go to Mexico to live - legally of course!
Tempest
Ohio
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I am gay man and an American citizen. For the last four years I’ve been with J, an undocumented immigrant from Mexico. I feel bad that I have to stress that he is not a bad person, has a job, and has never committed a crime. At this point in our national discussion on illegal immigration, we have such a distorted image of what an undocumented immigrant is. We start out by calling him an illegal, instead of an undocumented immigrant. That is what many people automatically believe about illegal immigrants; that they ARE illegal. Some believe that they are coming into this country specifically to commit as much crimes as they can get away with while they are here, and that they are a drain on our system. They argue that if you came here illegally, you then base your life on an illegal action, and everything you do after that is therefore illegal. Being undocumented, in fact, is not a criminal offense, but a civil one.
We live together. We are in love and want to spend the rest of our lives together. I knew that this issue was ours to deal with from the beginning, but now that our relationship has grown much more serious, I would like to find a way somehow for him to become a US citizen, but there doesn’t seem to be any solution anytime soon. I’m angry that there are at least 16 other countries that would allow a same sex couple to marry each other for immigration purposes. Why the big hang up in the US?
Both Democratic presidential candidates have promised to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act of 1996, and say that they would offer a path to citizenship for undocumented immigrants as part of immigration reform, but I feel that immigration reform is not a high priority for any of the presidential candidates.
I feel like there really isn't much sympathy or empathy for us in either the gay community or the immigrant rights community. Thank you for listening.
D
Seattle
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I got my green card just last year in December. I want to marry my long time girlfriend who lives in Dubai. The problem is that I don't know how long will it take for her to come to America with me from the date that we get married. We've been apart 4-5 years now because I've been studying here and currently looking for a job. I don't want to keep her waiting for more long. I need to know approx. how much longer it will take for her to come to America after marriage.
BZ
California
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It seemed it only happened yesterday. The feeling of being an immigrant does feel pretty low considering how successful you are in America. However, even if you move to another country, it still doesn't change who you are. You'd remember your story always. I know I remember mine. It happened over 3 years ago. I moved from my native county, Israel. My family and I arrived in NJ and lived there for over 2 years. And then we moved to CA. It was such a lucky time for us. But it still didn't feel like home. In many ways, you still want to go back. You never feel the same. Ever.
Daniela
Walnut Creek, CA
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My name is Delfina Caruso and this is my story. It all started in January 1997. I went to visit a friend whom I had a crash on in America. I stayed until February, we fell deeply in love, it was love at first sight. I went back to Italy in February, then my boyfriend asked me to marry him and to go to the American embassy in Naples, Italy to ask about the procedure about marrying him in America. At that particular time I was pregnant, the people at the embassy treated me unfairly because I told them the truth. They told me I could never go back to the States anymore. In the meantime my boyfriend talked to a lawyer that he wanted to bring his future wife to America, he wanted to know what was the procedure. The lawyer took the case and told him to let her come to America. As an Italian citizen I can only stay ninety days from the arrival date. The lawyer presented me a document that stated that he would change my status from tourist to resident. I paid him half of the money in advance the other half when he finishes the case. As a result he fraud me because he did not do what he was supposed to, even though I paid him in full. He made me over stay longer than I was supposed to. Time passed and I had a baby. My husband had a few restaurants and was very successful. My husband contacted immigration about my case, they asked him to fill out an I 130 application. It took a few years and I was approved in 2001 for the I 130. After that I had a second baby. I could not return to see my family in Italy because I was waiting on my paperwork. My mother became sick but I could not visit her. We asked immigration if we could leave the country with the I 130 approved, they said it was okay to leave and to continue the I 130 process in Naples Italy, that it would not take more than 6 months. In 2001 September 11 came, after that our business went down dramatically. We think that because of husband being Muslim. To let time pass by, we decided to move to Italy for 6 months, it would not be a problem for the kids because they are babies. After that we went to apply in immigration for returning to the USA. I paid all the fees for the permanent residence at the embassy. After that they denied me because of my overstay in 1997. My husband went many times to the USA immigration to find out what they can do for me but they told him since I am in Naples to continue the process in Naples. Immigration in Naples is not very helpful. They do not let my husband talk to a counselor to see what they can do next. It has been 6 years living in Italy but our minds are really in the USA. This is the land of opportunities, people from all over the world come to the USA, for a second chance, a new beginning. I deserve that new beginning too.
Delfina Caruso
Italy
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I married my husband in 2001 and he is being deported now because he had a deportation order back in 1999 when he came illegally to this country. We have a daughter together and I am lonely every night with fears that somebody is going to enter my house. I miss him very much and I wish these laws could change. I believe we have the freedom to live wherever we want to.
Diana
Denver, Colorado
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My mother emigrated to the United States in 1989. She worked cleaning houses and made enough money to keep us from starving in Mexico. She returned to Mexico around November 1990 and she was able to convince all of us to move to the United States. She really did a great job, because I remember that at the age of 5 I would make bets with my brother (who was 2 years older than me) on anything. I remember betting him a million dollars that I could jump from the roof of this abandoned house and land on my feet and not complain one bit about the pain. I remember holding that dollar in my hand and telling myself that I was going to make a lot of those and that I would never have to wear those plastic boots that really tortured my feet because with all the money that i was going to make, I would be buying myself guaraches ... sandals. Los Estados Unidos, that sounded like heaven.
I remember crossing the border, which was nothing more than a chainlink fence that was very easy to get past. Once we were on the other side we walked to a venture store and waited for the person who was going to transport us to a hotel and get us ready to fly out of Nogales, Arizona to Chicago. I think it was about 13 of us that managed to get crammed into a small little room. On the airport, I could not get past a metal detector because I was wearing a denim jacket with a million metal buttons and every time I tried passing through the damn thing would go off. I remember the "coyote" rushing to me and taking that denim jacket off my back so that we could keep on moving to our destination.
Chicago in December seemed like something unreal. I had never touched snow and that day .... I walked on snow, touched snow, ate snow and dreamed about snow.
Victor
Chicago, IL
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I have been living here for 7 years. I have come to love this country and as far as I am concerned, this is my home. But I am Illegal! And recently I suffered a loss in my native land. I could not go home to say farewell to them for fear that I would not get back! I am a law abiding person, have never been in trouble and want to live here for the rest of my life. I don't exist in my homeland or in this land. I have no voice, and I am living in the shadows! And I don't want to live like this anymore. I want to be able to pay my taxes, vote in an election and most of all go home on vacation to see my family without having to worry about getting deported on my journey back here! The US has always been an immigrant nation. It was built on the backs of hard working ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS! This country belonged originally to the Native American. The "white man", came to this country and "Stole" this land from its original inhabitants! That was also Illegal, And all of you blue blooded anti immigrant politicians in power today, are in some way, products of Illegal Immigration. So don't forget when you discredit Illegal Immigrants, you are really discrediting your own heritage. Give us a break and give us green cards so we can become LEGAL immigrants and eventually, AMERICAN CITIZENS.
Enya
New York, NY
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My family came to the U.S.A. 19 years ago. My older brother was 3, I was 2 and my little brother was 9 months. My mother was a single mom with 5 kids...always working two jobs in order to put food on the table and clothes on our backs. Maybe that's the reason my older brother turned to the streets looking for love. Well we had never been able to fix our immigration status until my mother married a U.S. citizen 5 years ago. It has already been 2 years since my mom filed her papers but since then has received no response. Recently my older brother was put in jail for a case that he was innocent. He was left in jail for 2 years and after not finding him guilty he was deported for no apparent reason (Dec-30-08) other than to get him out of this country in which he grew up and has come to love. My mother was devastated by his deportation and who knows how long more she needs to wait until she gets a response from immigration. Maybe it will be a couple of years till we can see my brother again. God is the only one who knows the answer to this question and who will help us out with all the division that is going on with us illegal immigrants. I'm very terrified...will the government win in kicking us out?
Maria
San Jose, CA
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I met the love of my life the summer of 2007. We got engaged and everything was wonderful until he was in a car crash and the police ran his papers. He came here without papers because there was a 'blood fued' and Mitch had destroyed his family's land. He survived because he came here, many others did not. Now ICE has him and is going to deport him to Honduras, where I fear for his safety. We do not have children yet, but desperately want to. And I am crushed that I cannot leave school for 2 more years to be with him. I am so angry at this country that was built by immigrants but does not accept new ones. All I want is to be married to the love of my life, but I can't because of the government!
Rebecca
Seattle, WA
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I met a wonderful man, and we want to spend our lives together. Unfortunately, we can not live the American Dream because he is an illegal immigrant. He has been a good law abiding citizen for over 15 years here, but that makes no difference. We want to be married, but we are afraid to do so, because we can't just go into it, for fear he will be deported. We want to do things legally and honestly, but I don't want to lose him for 10 or 20 years halfway across the world! If he has to leave, I will go with him, or follow closely behind. I don't want to have to leave America, but if he leaves, so do I. I used to love the country of my birth with all of my heart, but now it only leaves a bitter taste in my mouth. What fools run this government of ours? They preach racial tolerance, but what are their immigration laws? Legal racism! How can the powers that be keep denying us? Can they not remember that this country was founded by immigrants? Does anyone remember what the inscription on the Statue of Liberty reads? Perhaps we should lead our government officals by the hand to see! They need to take a good hard look at the history of this country. We are all immigrants, except for the poor souls who were all booted out of their homes and shipped to Oklahoma! I bet we were all illegal immigrants in their eyes! Who are they to say who may live on a tract of land? Are they gods? No. But may God help us in our plight!
RD
Kansas
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My family and I are from Durango, MX. we came to the United States in 1986, my dad, mom, sis, bro and I. My mom fixed papers for us because she was born here. My brother got deported 2yrs ago and I'm going thru the process of fighting my case. My brother got arrested and convicted of a felony and that is why he got deported but he did not know that this was going to happen or else he would had fought his case before pleading guilty. For myself I got a misdemeanor charge but I have a pretty good chance of getting relief from the judge because I have a US citizen wife and two US citizen kids. If we would have known that these were going to be the consequences of our actions I'm sure we would have reacted different to the situations that we were faced with. Now my brother got deported for life meaning never to come back to the US, all his immediate family is here in the US and I know he misses those precious family times that we had. As for my dad, mom and sis they all became American citizens last year. I hope I could get thru the whole process OK.
Ernesto Cervantes
Moreno Valley, California
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I have been with my husband for a long time. I am 25 years old. We have a 6 year old 3 year old and 2 month old. He got in trouble in 2006. I hired a criminal lawyer. He got out after 6 and half months and was on home detention still waiting trial because he was a flight risk. We was working on his case and we had all the approved documents. While his case was still pending on Thursday March 6 2008 ICE decided to come to my home and take away my husband. Now our kids cry for him. The hardest thing is knowing he is getting sent back cause he was supposedly deported in 1997. He has been here for 11 years. It is sad. They say America is for the children. Well I do not think it is fair how they are sending back people to Mexico. What about their life here? My husband was the main supplier in our home and I am so depressed over all this and so confused. My children want him home. How could these laws be so harsh?
Kristina
Noblesville, Indiana
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I am a 25 yr old American citizen who married a man from Mexico, in July 2000. We filed for his papers in April, 2001. We paid the 1,300 fine did everything we were supposed to do. Immigration messed up the paper work. they put down the wrong person as the sponsor for my husband. That resulted in him being deported in October, 2007. It’s almost been five months since me, my 8 yr old and 2 yr old have seen him. It’s been extremely hard on us. It feels like my whole life has been ripped apart. We are still trying to find a way to get him back in the U.S. I refuse to let immigration decide my life and where I’m going to live it.
Beth Thomas
Sapulpa, Oklahoma
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My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years we have a child and I have applied for my husband to get his visa in 2001 and nothing but i then decided to locate my congressman and they have been helping me a lot they have already approved one of my applications and i am now in the process of them reviewing another one with faith and lots of love i hope my hubby will be home soon.
No name given
Portsmouth, VA
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I am a US citizen, and I met a wonderful man just about a year and half ago who is not a US citizen. He is from Honduras. We have been together just about two years and just recently got married about 5 months ago. Our life is so great together and was going so good, until 3 days after our wedding date he got picked up and put in jail for being illegal. He spent almost 2 months in jail, before they sent him back home. Now he is home and he is unable to come back to the US for 20 years. I think by him getting married to me, knowing I am a citizen, that it would make him some kind of legal but it didn't and they say that our marriage isn't real either. I wake up every day just to wish him here with me but nothing yet. We are still together and I plan on going to Honduras to be with him. Because he is the best man I will ever find and I am not going to lose him just because he is illegal. What does it matter? He's a human being like the rest of us anyway. Good luck to everyone and hope everything works out for you and your family.
Danni
Olean, NY
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Eight of my very best friends were picked up by immigration Feb 3, 2008 at 8:30 pm. All the guys will be deported back to Honduras, but we do not know when. These men worked hard everyday and were good honest people. How can this happen? They were not even able to pack-up their personal belongings to send home. Because we are no relation, the police/immigration will not even tell us where they are jailed so that we could send them cigarettes or a calling card. All these guys entered the country legally to work after hurricane Katrina. What will happen to them illegally in Honduras when they arrive? Will they spend time in jail before they can go find residence? Deportation is worse than a death.
Gilbert
West Lake, LA
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My wife and I were married in 2000 in Dallas, TX. Our first boy was born in December 2000. We applied for her green card in Salt Lake City, Utah in the spring 2001. In October 2002 we moved to Massachusetts. In August 2002 her gynecologist ordered her to bed rest for the last 5 months. We decided with her doctors approval she would return to Brazil where her sister would care for her and our first born. She would return at the beginning of her 9th month. We went to the INS and requested permission to leave "Advanced Parole" and we were denied because her paperwork was in Utah. We had already purchase a ticket and the welfare of my wife and our unborn child outweighed the INS's rules. (BIG MISTAKE). Our extenuating circumstances meant nothing. I went to Brazil to pick them up. When we returned they processed my wife for entering the country without a valid visa. We went to the Immigration court in Boston and the judge said he was not concerned with the circumstances surrounding our decision and they ordered the mother of two American citizens to be deported for ten years. We left the country a few months later and we have been separated since. I visit my wife and kids but I need to stay here and earn an income to support our family. I want my wife and kids back with me. My kids are denied security, the pursuit of happiness and a quality education.
Robert Sheldon
Hollywood, Florida
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I was ten when I came to USA and now
I'm 22. I have a permanent residency but I have applied for naturalization
and I haven't gotten anything in 3 years. I come to find that our
lawyer never filed a form that we paid $2000 to be filed. What do
I do, sue her? Its bad enough I have to start all over and the pay
is just crazy... I need help. DON'T trust your lawyer too much, you
better call places to make sure they received all forms that you should
be filing.
Jane
Cleveland, Ohio
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I
have been here for 8 years now. I came back in 2000 when I was 16.
I got a job 3 days later then met my wife. We got married almost 3
years ago. I applied for my residency in November and got my appointment
for my fingerprints and pictures a month after got my work permit.
I have my interview February 28. I'm so nervous. I hope they don't
send me back to Mexico. I don't have felonies or anything, just a
lot of speeding tickets and a suspended license. That's about it.
Can they still send me back even if I got a work permit and a social
number already?
Juan
C.
Madison, WI
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My
brother was born in Yugoslavia. In 1967 we entered the USA as immigrants.
On November 30 1971, received legal permanent status since childhood
he was under the age of 18 when our dad naturalized in 1983. He is
married to a US citizen and has 2 kids 11 and 13 that are USA citizens.
His son was born handicapped with a diaphragmatic hernia. My brother
has never been outside the USA since arriving in 1971. He's been here
for over 37 yrs. On June 20, 2000 he received a final order of deportation.
He knows nothing about the country he came from don't even know the
language. He has to check with immigration 5 times a month also has
to wear an ankle bracelet on his leg, also has to call voice recognition
every 25th of the month. We wasted over 30,000 dollars on immigration
attorneys and none of them did nothing. He worked very hard for his
money. We are at a dead end. INS tells him he is stateless at this
time because Yugoslavia doesn't recognize him as a citizen. Please
help if anyone knows a good attorney or advice, thank you. God bless.
TM
FLA
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My
brother has been in the US since he was 1 year old. In his 20s he
committed a felony but he paid his debt to society. He made a mistake
and learned from it. He got 4 years in prison. Now that he is doing
good and got his life together, immigration decided to give him a
final order of deportation. It's pretty sad when God can forgive you
but the USA can't. I love my brother and I hope God will help all
of you to just keep praying. Don't give up.
God
be with us
Florida
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My
family, which includes my mother, father, my three sisters, and me,
moved to the United States from Mexico when I was 4. My sisters were
8 and 2. My youngest sister was born after we arrived, so she is a
legal American. The rest of my family was on a temporary visa for
90 days. We lived in a motel for about a month while my parents struggled
to find a job. My mother found work first as a maid at a hotel that
was a 20 mile commute. We didn't have a car, and we couldn't afford
for her to take a cab every day, so we took a bus to town in search
of somewhere close enough to my mother’s work that she could
walk to it. We found an old abandoned apartment that had no heat.
We moved in there because it was only a 5 minute walk to my mother's
job. My siblings and I struggled with the language. We could only
speak a few words of English, but my mother and father had learned
the language before leaving Mexico. My father eventually found a job
as a janitor. We had applied for permanent Visa's and after a long
wait, we all had one. My mother and father got better paying jobs
after a while and sent us to school, were we where constantly made
fun of, but we still wanted to go so we could learn. We felt so privileged
even though we didn't have much. We moved out of the apartment and
into a better one, even though it took us a while to find one because
no one wanted to sell an apartment to Mexicans. It has been a hard
journey, but we made it.
Cristinia
Austin, Texas
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My
husband and I arrived here in 2001 as tourists. With 4 children in
tow, we sought ways of becoming legal permanent residents. He found
a job that did not even ask him for his legal documents. The bosses
liked him and pretty soon, he got raise after raise. My husband was
scared of asking his employer to sponsor his working visa. I, on the
other hand was lucky enough to find a company who sponsored me. The
downside? I have to commute 75 miles one way everyday. In 2005, my
husband was caught. His lawyer then advised him to plead for voluntary
departure. He left for the Philippines in May 2006. I took an offer
from a company that my colleagues warned me against. The company was
notorious for their very strict regulations and was known to fire
employees left and right. Just before I could file for the I-485,
I got laid off. Being without a husband is bad enough. Facing foreclosure
is even worse. I can t afford the house payments anymore and have
sell the house. My realtor said it will be tough and seems like foreclosure
is inevitable.
Cristina
San Diego, CA
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I
was born in Mexico brought to the US when I was two. I now am a US
citizen and I have married an illegal immigrant. My husband has his
interview next month and now I find out that because my husband was
in the USA for six years and he left back to Mexico (he was not deported)
he may be punished for ten years!! I have talked to numerous lawyers
and they have told me that my lawyer screwed us up because of the
way he submitted the application he is not coming back.(His exact
words) Do the immigration office or the lawyers know how it is for
your life to be on hold because the other half of you is not there?
Do they know how it feels when our kids ask when is daddy coming home??
Or you can't even plan on having another baby, buy a house, nothing.
All my daughter and I do now is plan on when are we going to Mexico
to see him. It's unfair, unfair, unfair!! (Sorry I'm just upset) Maybe
that is why most of the illegal immigrants in the USA don't want to
fix their papers. They don't want to be separated from there families,
and don't even mention the cost of all of this. But we must have faith.
Maybe one day ever yone of these stories I have read will end up a
Happy Ending including mine!!! GOOD LUCK TO ALL I will keep you in
my prayers... And maybe someday it will be better...
Erika
Lancaster, CA
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My
fiancé is from Poland. She has been here for almost five years
fighting with immigration to be a permanent resident. She went through
medical testing twice. All procedures twice. She first got married
to someone else who abused her. She recently won battered spouse and
was issued work permission this last year of 2007. She had an appointment
for her green card on 1-10-08. Her lawyer had been working on these
cases for almost two years now. When we arrived for her interview
they told her she was on deportation status since 2004. Her lawyer
had no clue. How is it that immigration can approve work permission,
approve battered spouse, schedule a green card appointment, and nobody
knew about deportation for over four years? The 1-800 number said
nothing about this, the website had no info about this, the lawyer
didn't even know about this. She is a person of very good stature,
never been arrested, and did everything immigration wanted. She has
held a job for over two and half years. Now she is waiting for court.
Polska
Orlando, FL
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My
mother was recently sent to get her visa at Ciudad Juarez and has
been told that a final decision will be mailed out to her. I now find
myself very lonely without her and sometimes wish my parents would've
stayed in Mexico to raise us. Now we have to live with the laws of
this "wonderful" country. My father is a United States Citizen
but apparently you have to be a rich citizen to have rights in this
country. "United" States, doesn't this also count for families
being united? Young and old couples are being separated. This country
needs to fix itself.
Lonely
daughter
El Paso, TX
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My
husband was detained in June by immigration. My son is now 1 ½.
We just built a house. I pushed for us to live for our future even
though we were in proceedings. I never dreamed my country would do
this to us. I thought we would win. We didn't. My husband made a minor
mistake in 1996 but wasn't sentenced until 1997, to probation. He
has not been in trouble since. He was here legally for 23 years and
at 40 he is in jail and being taken from his son and wife, both citizens.
Not only do I need to figure out how to raise my son and keep a roof
over his head but raise him as a proud American after they took his
Daddy away. How? We are supposed to be the greatest country. They
torture these people by locking them up for as long as they want just
because they were not born here. Death would be less painful. I am
not a proud American and we are just yet another number. Murderers
and rapist are on the streets. Great country huh.
Suddenly
single mom
Rhode Island
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I'm
an older person and I cried like a baby today! For almost 25 years,
I have had no record of any crime! The board of immigration appeals
turned me down again to reopen my case, the ground is timing! The
law has given the BIA the authority to use discretion in exceptional
circumstances about timing. The decision said my case does not fall
into the exceptional categories! My life has been destroyed in this
country! I have been trapped in no return for so many years, no family,
no career with a master's degree! Where are the good people in this
nation? Why my life has to be wasted on technicality!!!!!
Aris
NY
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